Is there a magic button to push? She recommends a clit suction toy like the Womanizer, which uses pleasure air technology to stimulate oral sex.
The best part is that, because the G-spot and the clitoris are connected, occasional stimulation to the clitoris will make her G-spot orgasm more likely.
The only people who have ever been able to get me off with cunninlingus were people I felt super comfortable with — and even they weren't able to bring me to orgasm until we'd developed some pretty strong feelings for each other.
Many couples fail to ever have squirting orgasms, because they go for the squirting orgasm too early.